i can see clearly now

what kind of a man he is.

someone who is enthusiastic in the beginning about making friends and establishing relations.

and then later when he is bored or feels they are getting too close, he shuts down.

and the way he does that is by disrespecting, disregarding, ignoring them, and stop being the 'good friend' that he was before.

he just simple 'disappears' from the relationship.

once in a while, he'd initiate contact but that's just to assure himself that he still 'has' them as friends.

and they'd think he was 'back' because he was a good friend before so probably he was just too busy or occupied with other things to spend time with them.

unfortunately, they are making assumptions based on the 'him' that they thought they knew.

not the real him.

and when he is satisfied that they are still his friends, just as fast, he withdraws and stays away again.

he is too self-involved to care or be bothered to consider other people's feelings or thoughts.

he only seeks people out when it suits him. he doesn't bother to the rest of the time.

this is the real him.

i can see him clearly now.